I’m Just The Dad or Partner, I Don’t Really Have A Role
Hey Innate Express Passengers!
Traditionally, the involvement of dads and partners in birth has been low to almost non-existent. However, I am now seeing many dads and partners rise up and act on their innate ability to be one of the best forms of support for mama. In this role, you have the opportunity to set the tone for the birthing environment and in some instances you may be verbalizing directives from the birthing plan, if mama is unable to do so. Many partners are able to assist in the comfort measures provided to mom. Most importantly, they can help make sure their partner feels safe.
On a hormonal level, the greater connection between dad/partner and mom, the more oxytocin is produced. This hormone is vital during the birthing process and subsequently through postpartum. I will elaborate on the role of hormones in another post. So back to dads and partners. I am willing to bet that the beautiful being who is carrying your child would love for you to be more than just support. She wants you to play an active role during her pregnancy, birth and postpartum period.
Innate Expressions Holistic Doula Services is committed to empowering families to work together to create the optimum experience for the entire family. We have sessions built into our packages to help ensure that this is taking place. I am committed to empowering partners and dads so they feel prepared to step into that active role.
A few months ago, I viewed a series called Doula Dads by Black Love Doc. I was amazed by the intentionality shown by the dads, uncles, and partners in this series. I’m an avid This is Us watcher, and when I saw Sterling K. Brown was featured in the series; I had to watch it. So if you missed it, I’m going to embed his episode below. I also invite you to watch the other episodes in the series. After you watch, leave a comment that lets me know your thoughts on it. If you’re an expectant mom tell me how you hope your partner will show up for you during this time. If you’re an expectant dad or partner tell me what are some of the challenges you’re experiencing during this new season. Also tell me how you hope to show up for your child’s mom. Until next time . . .
Yours in Innate Expression,
Patience
